Soothing First
Over the years my way of working with couples have gone through many changes, shifts and transformations. And one of the critical first...
The Meaning of Things
One of the key challenges for couples, and in working with couples, is the idea of what things mean. Over time it has become a standard...
The Stance of the Therapist
Similar to any other form or modality of therapy, the position, role and stance of the therapist needs to be consistent with the...
Systemic Theoretical Assumptions
There is generally a great deal of misunderstanding when the term systemic is used. The common use of the term refers to including...
Couple Therapy: An Introduction
Over the years I have made numerous attempts to start writing down what exactly I do when I work with couple. I enjoy couple therapy....
On Being a Therapist: An Introduction
There is no shortage of publications out there about different therapeutic approaches, techniques and all the things about how to do...
A Few Reflections on Space
I remember, years ago when I was living in London, there was a building. I don't recall where it was, except that it was on the canal...